Since 90% of building muscle, gaining weight and ultimately transforming your body is mental, if you can't motivate yourself to push through the pain and fatigue of your workouts, consuming all of your muscle building meals, and all the obstacles that will come in your way then you might as well through in the towel now.
Occasionally I run surveys on my blog and one of the main things that are holding guys back is lack of motivation. And since motivation is so important.
I wanted to give you 4 steps to motivating yourself to huge muscle gains...
Step 1 – Find Out What You Respond to (What Lights a Fire Under You)
Every one is different. What I may respond to might be completely different from what you respond to as far as motivation goes.
For example: I respond to negative thoughts. For instance, when I'm weight lifting, and I'm trying to push myself to the Max, negative thoughts from high school usually pop into my head.
Thoughts of seeing people laughing and making fun of me, the embarrassment I’ve been put through (because I was skinny) and all the hurtful experiences I’ve gone through for obvious reasons light a HUGE fire under me.
It honestly gives me motivation to keep pushing even though my muscles are on fire, I'm tired, fatigued and feel like quitting, like people laughing at me in high school. And that’s what you need to find.
So the first thing you need to do is to find out what lights a fire under you, what do you respond to?
It can be anything from negative thoughts (i.e. - bad experiences, people you don't like) all away to positive thoughts, like girls you like or find attractive, how you felt when you achieve something BIG, someone you admire, family etc.
Step 2- Write Down 5 thoughts / Experiences / Things That Make You Want to Keep Going
Once you know what you respond to. Now it's time to list them. They did time now to write down at least five things that light a fire under you.
Keep in mind it to be a mixture of positive thoughts, negative thoughts, people in your life, people you admire, people you don't like, personal experiences, etc. for example your list could include things like:
- the time, you won first place in a race
- a cute girl in her class
- your mom, your dad
- a bully that you don't like
- the time you fell playing football and everybody laughed
Step 3 -FEEL IT!
Now that you have these images in your head, it's time to channel them into motivation.
Just imagine how these thoughts come to life if you QUIT
For Example: If your thoughts were of people who made fun of you…
How much more would they make fun of you if they saw you quit or give up ?
…or, if one of your thoughts was of a girl you like or find attractive…
How would she look at you if you quit... if you reached your goal ?
…or, if one of your thoughts was of someone you care about or look up to…
How disappointed the people who look up to you would feel if you quit?
… or, if one of your thoughts was of someone who actually looks up to you…
How let down would they feel if you gave up?
Step 4 - Rewind and Press Play
Now it's time to Play these thoughts in your head over and over again:
- while you're working out
- when it's time to eat a meal and you don't feel like it
- when you don't feel like pushing yourself in the gym
- when you progress to a new weight and you're not sure if you can do it
- pretty much any time you face a new obstacle
- and especially during times when you feel like quitting or slacking off
Remember building muscle and gaining weight is 90% mental, if your head isn't in the game then your results will suffer, everything will feel worse than what it really is, and every obstacle will fill so hard to climb.
So use these tips build your motivation and become an unstoppable force.
Train hard,
Rich